There are 5 basic levels of communication.


Level 1: A Hi Bye Communication.
Hi!! Good morning!!
You greet to a stranger at the park. You do not
know his/her name, etc

Level 2: Sharing of general opinion.
This hamburger is really good.
You talked to your co-worker during lunch
on your 1st day of work. You may know
his/her name, etc

Level 3: Sharing of personal feeling.
My boss says my performance is bad.
You talked to one of your closet buddy
at work and you feel like crying.

Level 4: Sharing of intimate feelings.
ABC, thanks for listening to me and I will
always love you XYZ.
You shared with your loved ones about
how you feel for each other.

Level 5: The Ultimate Intimacy.
Every day, I fall in love with you and for
the last 30 years. Happy 30th Anniversery Honey!!
I guess you understand, else...... slap yourself.


Here is the deal. Each and every one of us has
only 24hrs to interact with one another. We have
to fully utilize the 24hrs to either, to put in more
effort to push a relationship from Level 3 to Level 4,
or simply, forget about a Level 2 relationship. You have
to ask yourself, which realtionship you want to really
focus on or rather, worth pursuing.

A relationship is also either, growing or dying. If it's
stagnant, that means the relationship had died some
time ago. The choice is yours.