they are very independent. they have their own wheelbarrow,
shovel, portable drill, ladder, grill, etc. even when they are in
trouble, they refuse to seek advice from their neighbors or
counsellors. the fact is, we need each other to survive and
no one can live alone. we need to sit down and exchange ideas
and experiences to enable each party to be more aware about
things.

remember the control tower and the pilot.