a research found out that it's your body language
that does the talking instead of the words that
comes out from your mouth.

gestures/body language/eye contact/hand-shake/etc = 55%
volume/tone of voice = 38%
verbal statements = 7%

what does that mean? even when you don't say a word,
you're making an impression. even when you don't say
a word, you are still talking.

again, when you are not talking, which means you are
silent, you are still transmitting signal to those
around you. scary huh.

what is silent anyway? or rather, when someone keeps
silence, what is happening? what is he/she trying to
tell us? why is silence makes some people freak out?
why some other people enjoy silence? why some people
cannot be silent for 10 minutes? why some people can
be silent for 20minutes?



a time for space,
a time for pondering,
a time for independence;

a time without people,
a time without talking,
a time without correspondence;

a time of silence yesterday,
a time of silence tomorrow,
a time of silence today;

a time of reflection,
a time of thinking,
a time of silence.

shhh...... you are still talking.