I am reading this book, The Seven Levels of Intimacy by
Matthew Kelly. So far, I am at pg 34 of 269. I can share
with you on how do I feel after carefully studying these few
pages. Hey....studying ok...not reading....

1) I enjoyed being alone.
2) I like to read.
3) I like to meet people.

I want to ask u this question.

Are you afraid being alone? Yes/No, why?

The point is that the first step toward intimacy with
others is intimacy with self. We become comfortable
with ourselves only when we acknowledge that we have
strengths and weaknesses. How do we learn to be
comfortable with ourselves? Only by spending time alone.

It is in solitude and silence that we learn most about
ourselves. Most people are not comfortable with themselves.
The first step toward experiencing true intimacy is getting
comfortable with yourself and learning how to enjoy
your own company.

Intimacy is mutual self-revelation. It is two people constantly
discovering and rediscovering each other. It is a never ending
process since people change. It is also a process......to be enjoyed.


Have a beautiful day.......greetings from San Diego.