have u ever try to be nice and yet feel that people are taking
advantage on you? is it because you are pessimistic? or people
assumed that you are just plain too nice and do this and do that for them?
or people do not realize any of the above?

i called up A and he said ok. let's go for a drink. after some phone calls,
we managed to get 5 people. when i was at A's place, B came and he
drove a mini van. we walked to the car and i asked if B could drive.
he said he had a lot of stuff in his mini van. C drove a pick up and it's a
sports version; 2 seater truck and i did not asked her. after discussing
for 5 mins, i volunteered to drive. as everyone get in the car, i said,
since you all are not driving, then you all needed to drink at least
2 beers each. i want to drink 2 beers but i am driving. if anyone of u
plan to drink a coke, then you are the best candidate to drive. duh!!